“My parents aren’t getting any younger. How do I talk to them about Estate Planning?”

It’s Monday! That means its the start of a new “work” week and time to get things done!

I was talking to a client last week (let’s call her Cristina), a wife and mother of two young children. We were getting her estate plan executed. At the end of our meeting she said, “My parents aren’t getting any younger. How do I talk to them about Estate Planning?” Cristina continued on to tell me how she knew it was important, but couldn’t find a way to begin the discussion with her parents.

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Cristina isn’t alone. There are thousands, possibly millions, of people who have reached retirement age and still don’t have estate plans. As a young professional, starting a family of your own, it’s important for you to create an estate plan for your family but it is also very important to make sure your parents have one.

I came across this article this morning from the Guardian Fiduciary Services on the 25 Best Questions to Ask Your Aging Parents. Although this isn’t a full and complete list, its a starting to point to get your parents discussing their plans in regards to estate planning.

When discussing estate plan options with your parents and their plans, it’s important to emphasize the importance of THEIR wants and desires- you and your siblings (if any) want to know how to distribute their hard earned assets in whatever way they want.

It may be hard at first, but GET TALKING! Use the questions above to open up a dialogue. You know your family’s dynamics best, but be sure that everyone that needs to be included in the conversation is present, or at least knows whats going on.

Do you have any suggestions on how to begin this conversation? What has worked for you? We look forward to your feedback!

And if you want to have a one-on-one chat with our San Mateo County, Alameda County or Santa Clara County attorney, feel free to send us a note.

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